Dear Diary: 2012

I felt heartbroken when I heard about her story. She was just a normal girl taking a bus, going home and in just that few hours, so many things happened. She was "gangbang-ed" by 6 guys and thrown out onto the road, naked and also severely injured. She died on the way to Singapore, Mount Elizabeth hospital, (actually for treatment). People heard that the 6 guys were let off the hook and the case was over and they were enraged and started protesting in the streets of India's capital, Delhi and have also been held in other cities, including Calcutta, Bangalore and Mumba.

People were enraged because they are many cases of sexual violence and abuse around households and people need to put a STOP to this and say ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. This case was similar to Junko Furuta and although the abuse was not as serious, it still caused a life. Okay so here is Junko Furata's story and although it's long, i'll appreciate it if you would take a few minutes to read this.

Junko's:

"A high-school girl [junko furuta] was abducted by four teenaged hooligans while she was on her way to work. They took her to the house of a friend, held her in his bedroom, and for the next forty-five days enacted every imaginable form of abuse on her (and some you wouldn�t want to imagine).

They gang-raped her�both with their own bodies and with an assortment of foreign objects�beat her, kicked her, doused her extremities with lighter fluid and set her on fire, and probably did many other things to her that went undocumented by either her tormentors or the police. They mocked her pain. They held her down and dropped barbells on her stomach.

This last bit of torture was more than she could withstand, and after going into convulsions she apparently either strangled on her own vomit or simply died from her beatings. When the boys were questioned later about why they didn�t do anything during her seizure, they replied, �We assumed she was faking it.�

"She tried to escape, more than once. The first time, she was caught in the process of making a phone call. The second time, she ran into the parents of the boy who lived there; apparently they had known all along what was gong on. She begged them to help her, but they refused; his friend had criminal connections, and they didn�t want to get into trouble, too.

After her death, they taped her arms and legs together, threw her into a 55-gallon drum, filled it with cement, and dumped it in an empty lot. The body wasn�t recovered until almost a year later. The ringleader of the whole incident served eight years in prison and is now a free man."

- although now the main culprit is back in jail in 2004 because of hitting a man.

these are the things she had to go through:

DAY 1: November 22, 1988: Kidnapped Kept captive in house, and posed as one of boy's girlfriend Forced to call her parents and tell them she had run away Starved and malnourished Fed cockroaches to eat and urine to drink Forced to masturbate Forced to strip in front of others Burned with cigarette lighters Foreign objects inserted into her **/anus

DAY 11: December 1, 1988: Severely beat up countless times Face held against concrete ground and jumped on Hands tied to ceiling and body used as a punching bag Nose filled with so much blood that she can only breath through her mouth Dumbbells dropped onto her stomach Vomited when tried to drink water (her stomach couldn't accept it) Tried to escape and punished by cigarette burning on arms Flammable liquid poured on her feet and legs, then lit on fire Bottle inserted into her anus, causing injury

DAY 20: December 10, 1988: Unable to walk properly due to severe leg burns Beat with bamboo sticks Fireworks inserted into anus and lit Hands smashed by weights and fingernails cracked Beaten with golf club Cigarettes inserted into ** Beaten with iron rods repeatedly Winter; forced outside to sleep in balcony Skewers of grilled chicken inserted into her ** and anus, causing bleeding

DAY 30: The suspects allegedly dripped hot wax onto Junko's face, burned her eyelids with a cigarette lighter, stabbed her with sewing needles in the chest area, cut and destroyed her left nipple with pliers, inserted a hot light bulb in her ** (as well as scissors), leading to more blood and a failure to urinate properly (the injuries being supposedly severe enough for Junko to require more than an hour to use the downstairs bathroom). On top of that, Junko's eardrums were ruined.

DAY 40: Begged her torturers to "kill her and get it over with"

January 1, 1989: Junko's body was allegedly mutilated and she was unable to move from the ground.

DAY 44: January 4, 1989: The four boys beat her mutilated body with an iron barbell. Then, lighter fluid was poured onto her legs, arms, face and stomach, and set on fire. Her body burned for a minute before the fire was put out. This torture lasted for two hours, and Junko died later in the day.

they served only 7 to 8 years in prison. now they are free and is among our society even though the main culprit is back in jail but he is doing time for another crime he did. not what he did to her.

all girls, please be careful. there are ALL SORTS OF PERVERTIC PEOPLE around. so please please please be more alert to everything that is happening around you. there are such pervertic minds on the loose. and the worse thing is you can never ever tell that they are such people.

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STOP SEXUAL ABUSE AND SPREAD THE WORD.

I know there's still alot of women in the world receiving this abuse and if you know anyone that is going through this, please contact someone trustable or anyone you think is able to help and you may save them from ending up like this.

"I love you too much to spoil the immortality of a feeling with fleeting lust."

Love? What is the true meaning of true love? Love. Love is the greatest gift God ever gave man. Love is not wanting to go anywhere without her. Love is not caring what other people think about the two of you. Love is when you feel depressed and sickly when you're not with her. You feel like your life has no meaning or purpose without her. And that if she wasn't holding your hand you would float away to heaven from where she came. Love is caring for her physically and emotionally. It's telling her everyday, anytime, anywhere, anyhow, for no just reason that you love her. Love is telling her u want to spend the rest of your life with her.

People mistake LOVE for LUST.

I WANT ~~love~~ lust.

Intense or unrestrained sexual craving.

Lust.

Lust DESTROYS love.

Learn the difference between a man who flatters you & a man who compliments you. A man who spends money on you & a man who invests in you. A man who views you as property & a man who views you properly. A man who lusts after you & a man who loves you.

There is a big difference between love and lust. You say you want to love every beautiful girl you see, but in your case it is evidently not love, but lust. It is physical attraction that takes hold of your mindset which is subject normal with you. You must learn to accept love if it comes your way, and to give love in return. Love lasts forever. Lust, like money, passes away.